Self Control

Marriage doesn’t cure lust, if it does, adultery wouldn’t exist. Self-control is still a requirement. Lust doesn’t care if you are married or single.
You may be Solomon in wisdom or David in praise or Abraham in faith or Joshua in war but if you are not Joseph in discipline, you will end up like Samson in destruction.



1. Make friends with successful people and occasionally buy them gifts and surprise them with lunch because successful people always give and hardly get, so when you give them, they value the gift a lot.

2. Get a mentor and follow his instructions and respect the relationship. Never beg your mentor for money or disrespect his or her privacy.

3. Make new positive friends as often as possible and ensure you keep the communication line open. Create a network of friends and not just connections.

5. Show kindness to everyone. Some small boys today will be big boys tomorrow. The biggest dog in the neighbourhood was once a puppy. Keep the information/secret to yourself.

6. Always plan ahead and be proactive. He that plans the future works less in the future.

7. Listen to speeches and messages from great teachers, both religious and educational.

8. Attend seminars and trainings on any area you need to improve yourself - Train the trainer, personal development, public speaking, sales etc.

9. Have the habit of keeping a pen and a writing pad handy because ideas come in the form of flashes. The smallest pen is bigger and better than the biggest brain.

10. Make sure at every point in time you are reading a book. If you spend 20 minutes reading daily, for 52 weeks you would have consumed 1,000,000 words.

11.Stay away from television as much as possible. You can watch educational channels. Men with big TV sit in front of them to watch men with big libraries.

12 Put control over your mouth; never say evil of any man; what you are not certain of should not be said. Say good of all men.

13. Always show appreciation for any good deed you received.

14. Always help someone in need.

15. Live a debt free life. What you can’t pay cash for is not your size.

16. Give out loans that you can part with as gift, so that you don’t destroy your business and relationship.

17. Create legitimate multiple sources of income.

18. Save at least 10 percent of your income.

19. Invest a portion of your income, and be patient to see it grow. If what you have in your hands is not good to be called a harvest then it’s a seed; sow it.

20. Keep a good financial record of all income and expenses, so you won’t ask later “where did my money go”

21. Be involved in community service- Control traffic, free lesson class for students etc.

22. Keep getting better on your daily goals and dream, develop yourself on them and make sure you get to the top 10 % of your industry.

23. Make sure you engage in physical exercise. It keeps your brain alert and your body fit to enjoy your success.

24. Pray often, and know that for every success, God made it possible.

Wishing you the very best in life. Practice what you just read, and see the difference your life would be.

discover your talent

Thirty days hath September, April, June and November all the rest have thirty one except February alone which has but twenty eight days clear and twenty nine in each leap year.
Moral lesson ..
Every person has different talents some have the same discover your own do not copy someone.


Time is what prevents everything from happening at once. Time is non-refundable whatever you do with your time will produce positive or negative falling or result in future. Time is what will differentiate Mr. A and Mr. B at the long run. Time is something we deal with every day, and something that everyone thinks they understand.
Another way of looking at time is as the totality of three separate elements. The past, the present and the future.
The past is those event or happenings which occurred before a given point in time. It can be accessed through memory or a recorded history. The study of the past, in particular as it relates to humans is called history.
The present is equivalent to the word now, and it is the period of time located between the past and the future. It is a period of time that is existing or occurring now or a moment.
The future is the indefinite time period after the present moment. The future is a period of time, going or likely to happen or exist. It is regarded as “still to come”.
These three separate elements (past, present and future) are the things that make up time without it there’s no life. Your present situation, life, career so on is as a result of what you use your time to do in the past, your future will determine what you will use your present time to do.

There is a right time for everything and everything on earth will happen at the right time (Ecc 3vs1). Stop killing yourself of the things of these world, the race of life is a matter of time. When your car, dreamed job, house has not come, no that time has not reach wait for it because time is patient. Why is it that we realize the importance of time only when there is little left of it? People make so many excuses because they’re not conscious of their time, time is precious, time is life, time is wealth and time is prosperity. The only killer of time is procrastination, Remember a wasted time cannot be recycled.



Dreams and desires begin as photographs within our hearts and minds - things that we want to happen in our future
God plants these pictures as invisible seeds within us.
God begins every miracle in your life with a seed - picture... the invisible idea that gives birth to a visible blessing.
Blessings and miracles are not haphazard experiences doled out by a moody, tempermental God, neither can they be begged or brought. They are his rewards for using our faith in Him. 

Dr Mike Murdock



1.Never fight a man under GRACE because the GRACE he carries will DISGRACE you.
2.Beware of the naked man who offers you clothes.
3.The death of a lion cannot be announced by a goat.
4.When one’s goat goes missing, the aroma of a neighbor’s soup gets suspicious.
5.The future belongs to the Risk takers, Not the Comfort seekers.
6.The words of the elders do not lock all the doors; they leave the right door open.
7.A deaf husband and a blind wife are always a happy couple.
8.Did you know that the COCA-COLA Company only sold 25 bottles in the first year? But this did not discourage them. They kept going. So never give up.
9.Let not what you cannot do tear you from what you can do.
10.A child who asks questions will not become a fool.
11.The first person you think of in the morning, or last person you think of at night, is either the cause of your happiness or your pain.
12.Be careful who you trust! Even Salt and Sugar are both white.
13.To Make A Difference In Someone’s Life, You Don’t Have To Be Brilliant, Rich, Beautiful, Or Perfect. You Just Have To Care.
14.Kindness is like butter, it works best when you spread it around.
15.The walls don’t only have ears; they can see too.
16.Don't be easily deceived by appearances. Even the leopard looks beautiful but has a bad heart.
17.It appears that everybody is a nobody trying to become somebody.
18.Never open the door for an Armed Robber, let them break it, its part of their Job.
19.Sometimes you have to play the role of a fool to fool the fools who think they are fooling you.
20.A girl may never get married if she waits for the “PERFECT MAN.
21.One Man’s food is every other man’s food, just because one fellow refuses to eat it doesn’t make it poison.
22.If you have a mother, there is nowhere you are likely to go where her prayers have not already been.
23.The only person that reads the terms & conditions is the one who writes it.
24.Just because you met someone at the church doesn’t mean they’re Mr Right or Mrs Right. Remember that Demons go to church too.
25.A foolish man tells his woman to Shut Up. BUT a Wise man tells her that Her Mouth is Extremely Beautiful when her LIPS are closed.
26.No matter how long the night, the day is sure to come.
27.A woman’s Greatest Perfume is the Fragrance of her Man’s SUCCESS.
28.A wise person knows that there is something to be learned from everyone.
29.It requires wisdom to understand wisdom; the music is nothing if the audience is deaf.
30.No matter how rich you are, you cannot pay for your sins.
31.This is what happens with those threatened by your success. First they try to ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win.
32.Give them a chair if they can’t stand your Success.
33.Be careful about the rumors you hear about a lady, it either comes from a man who can’t have her or a lady who can’t compete with her.


failure of experience

"If you fail to have an ​EXPERIENCE​ when you're supposed to have it, you lose an opportunity to tell a ​STORY​. ​ Your life's story is a combination of your ​EXPERIENCES​; Nothing ever happens to us except it brings ​LESSONS​ to teach us. Successful people have no time for ​REGRETS​. Every experience, ​GOOD or BAD​, is a story for the future. Get the experience, Get the story. Every successful man has a painful story to tell.